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Someone died

What to do in the first weeks, and help for the family.Help in North Carolina, from the federal government, and near you.

What to do first

  1. Give the funeral home the person's Social Security number. They usually tell Social Security about the death.
  2. Order several copies of the death certificate. Banks and agencies will ask for one.
  3. Call Social Security to ask about survivor benefits.
  4. If the person served in the military, ask VA about burial benefits.
  5. If you lost health coverage, pick a new plan soon.

Talk it through

Tell us more about what happened. We answer first, then show the programs that fit, then ask a few questions to narrow it down.

Dates that matter

These windows are set by federal rules. Your state may have its own dates too, so ask the agency.

  • 2 years

    Social Security death payment

    A surviving spouse may get a one-time payment of $255. If there is no spouse, a child may get it. Apply within 2 years of the death.

    Source: SSA.gov
  • 60 days

    Health coverage

    If the death means you lose your health plan, you can sign up for a Marketplace plan. You have 60 days.

    Source: HealthCare.gov

Help from North Carolina

North Carolina programs that fit what happened. Each agency decides who qualifies.

  • North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services

    North Carolina Vital Records

    NC Vital Records issues eligible certified copies of birth, death, and other vital records.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePaperIn person

  • North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services

    Food and Nutrition Services

    Food and Nutrition Services helps eligible households buy food using an EBT card.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePaperIn person

  • North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services

    NC Medicaid

    In North Carolina, Medicaid is called Medical Assistance.

    NC Medicaid provides health coverage to eligible North Carolina residents.

    Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaperIn person

  • North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services

    Mental Health, Developmental Disabilities and Substance Use Services

    The state and local partners connect residents with mental health, substance use, and developmental disability services.

    Ways to apply:PhoneIn person

  • North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services

    Aging Services

    Area Agencies on Aging connect older adults and caregivers with local services and support.

    Ways to apply:PhoneIn person

  • North Carolina Department of Health and Human Services

    Work First Family Assistance

    In North Carolina, TANF is called Work First.

    Work First provides cash assistance and related services to eligible families with children.

    Ways to apply:OnlineIn person

Checked on October 8, 2026

Federal help

These work the same in every state. Each agency decides who qualifies.

  • SSA.gov

    Survivor benefits from Social Security

    A widow or widower, an ex-spouse, children, and parents who depended on the person may get monthly benefits. Call Social Security to apply.

  • VA.gov

    Burial benefits for veterans

    VA can help pay for a veteran's burial and funeral, and offers burial in a VA national cemetery.

  • Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services

    HealthCare.gov

    The federal marketplace for health insurance plans. Many people can get lower monthly costs based on their income.

    Apply online at HealthCare.gov or by phone during open enrollment, or after a big change like losing other coverage.

Checked on October 9, 2026

Help near you

Find county and state offices near you, or call 211 to talk to someone about help in your area.

Offices near you

Type a five-digit ZIP code or a county in North Carolina.

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