Divorce or separation
What to do first
- Check whose health plan covers you and your children, and what changes.
- Ask your state's child support office for help setting up support.
- If your income dropped, apply for food benefits, Medicaid or cash help.
- If you change your name, update it with Social Security first, then your ID.
- Get free legal help before you sign an agreement.
Talk it through
Tell us more about what happened. We answer first, then show the programs that fit, then ask a few questions to narrow it down.
Dates that matter
These windows are set by federal rules. Your state may have its own dates too, so ask the agency.
60 days
Health coverage
If the divorce or separation means you lose your health plan, you can sign up for a Marketplace plan. You have 60 days.
Source: HealthCare.gov60 days
Keeping a spouse on a job's plan (COBRA)
To keep COBRA for a spouse after a divorce or legal separation, the plan must be told. Plans set the deadline, but it can be no shorter than 60 days, so tell the plan within 60 days.
Source: DOL.gov
Help from New Hampshire
New Hampshire programs that fit what happened. Each agency decides who qualifies.
New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services
Child Support Services
The Child Support Services program helps establish parentage and obtain or enforce support orders.
Ways to apply:PaperIn person
New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services
New Hampshire Medicaid
NH Medicaid helps pay for health care for eligible residents.
Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaperIn person
New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services
Children's Medicaid and CHIP
In New Hampshire, CHIP is called NH Healthy Kids.
NH Healthy Kids provides health coverage to eligible children.
Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaperIn person
U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Health Insurance Marketplace
Health Insurance Marketplace
HealthCare.gov lets New Hampshire residents compare and enroll in private health plans.
Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaperIn person
New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services
Supplemental Nutrition Assistance Program
SNAP helps eligible households buy food.
Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaperIn person
New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services
Financial Assistance to Needy Families
In New Hampshire, TANF is called FANF.
FANF provides temporary cash assistance to eligible families with children.
Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaperIn person
New Hampshire Department of Health and Human Services
New Hampshire Child Care Scholarship
The Child Care Scholarship helps eligible families pay for child care while they work or take part in approved activities.
Ways to apply:OnlinePhonePaperIn person
New Hampshire Housing Finance Authority
Housing Choice Voucher Program
The Housing Choice Voucher Program helps eligible households pay rent in private housing.
Ways to apply:OnlinePaper
Checked on October 8, 2026
Federal help
These work the same in every state. Each agency decides who qualifies.
SSA.gov
A new name on your Social Security card
A new Social Security card with your new name is free. Change it with Social Security before you change your driver license or ID.
SSA.gov
Benefits from a former spouse
If you were married 10 years or longer, you may get Social Security on your former spouse's work record later on.
LSC.gov
Free legal help
Legal aid offices give free legal help to people with low income. Find the one that serves you with the Legal Services Corporation's search.
Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services
HealthCare.gov
The federal marketplace for health insurance plans. Many people can get lower monthly costs based on their income.
Apply online at HealthCare.gov or by phone during open enrollment, or after a big change like losing other coverage.
Checked on October 9, 2026
Help near you
Find county and state offices near you, or call 211 to talk to someone about help in your area.
Talk to a person
- 211 NH
Free help finding food, housing, bills and more near you.
Call 211 - 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline
Call or text 988 if you are in crisis or worried about someone. Any time.
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